Instead, let me regale you with my latest grievance. It says somewhere in the Talmud (I'm not Jewish...sorry for the cultural appropriation) that there's a men's morning prayer with the following words:
“Blessed are you, Lord, our God, ruler of the universe who has not created me a woman.”
I say Amen and high five every man on the planet for being on the winning side of that prayer, solely because of the act of peeing. Men get to stand up for it. You can drive by at 110 klicks an hour and feel certain that the guy standing outside his car is just kicking the tires. But nobody buys it when you're squatting with your pants down. And there are not enough bathrooms between Flin Flon and Winnipeg to avoid this situation, so the whole time I'm driving, I'm keeping an eye out for lonely roads exiting the main highway.
This is a bad idea for several reasons.
A. Serial killers lurking nearby
B. Bears
It's still spring and every bear in Manitoba was traveling the number six highway on Friday. I'd pull over on a lonely stretch of road, not a car in sight, and barely (pun intended) get down to business when an actual bear would lumber into view. I broke speed records getting back into my car. So I entered one of those abandoned logging roads, first making sure there wasn't a clown-faced axe-wielding murderer hiding nearby. In spite of the all clear, there were still several problems with the area.
First, it was disgusting. People, this is not your personal dump for your child's diapers, your fast food containers and the last thousand water bottles you drank from and then abandoned. There was barely room to move, the place was so littered. And, there was a bear. A black one, smallish, but even so. I had already assumed the position, feeling grateful for the stretchiness of my Lulu Lemon pants and trying not to pee on my shoes. I thought I was going to faint, but fortunately I skedaddled instead.
In spite of the cold, it's actually easier peeing out of doors in the winter. The bears are sleeping and the snow means no splashing, which is a plus. Men probably splash too, but I doubt they care because of the distance thing. I can't explain it properly because I'm not good at geometry, or finding pi or longitude. Maybe its physics. I don't know.
I started wondering about the plan for women. Like, what's with all the squatting, dear Creator? But then, the more I thought about it, the clearer it became. Childbirth, gardening, picking up tiny toys like Lego pieces. There are many reasons for the act of squatting. With it comes a certain sense of resignation, of patience, and a calm acceptance of what is, at least in the moment. Squatting makes a person feel vulnerable, and maybe that's why women are so open with their feelings, comparatively speaking.
That which doesn't kill you (the bear, the axe wielding murderer) makes you stronger, according to Nietzsche. At least in the thigh area. So I'm doing a 180 on my whining and will consider the squatting position a gift. I'm pretty sure the Dalai Lama squats. I've seen him do it in a magazine photo. Maybe he's practicing yoga, or praying. Perhaps he's getting in touch with his feminine side and allowing himself to be vulnerable. Whichever it is, I choose to believe that for those few moments of getting down to business, I'm also exercising and meditating.
It feels appropriate to end this blog post with the almost prayerful lyrics of Canadian female icon, Shania Twain:
Oh, oh, oh, I want to be free, yeah,
to feel the way I feel,
Man! I feel like a woman!
Me too, Shania.
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